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The people who matter drift quietly

Add your partner, your dad, your sister, the friend you always mean to call. Bondify keeps track of who you haven't spoken to in a while — and gives you something worth saying when you open it.

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Free to start · iPhone · No feed, no friends list, nothing to post

4,000+
conversation questions
23
guided plans
93
days of material
9
kinds of conversation

Not just couples

A separate relationship with each person

Each bond moves at its own pace and gets its own kind of conversation. What a father and son get asked is not what a married couple gets asked — and that's enforced, not suggested.

Partner · together twelve years and out of questions
Dad · the call you keep meaning to make
Sister · you only talk at Christmas
Best friend · three time zones away
Husband & wife
Ageing parents

How it works

Talk, repair, stay close

Three jobs, and the app opens on the one you need today.

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Something to talk about

Over 4,000 questions across nine kinds of conversation, from light to genuinely deep. Bondify picks one that suits the person and the moment, so you're never scrolling a menu looking for a prompt.

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When something is wrong

23 guided plans for the things that actually go wrong between people. A few minutes a day, one small step at a time. Nothing is timed, nothing is locked behind a streak — miss a day and pick it up when you can.

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The part you keep

Memories with the story behind them, kept per person. Bondify hands one back to you years later, on the morning it happened.

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Wishlist

Note what they mention wanting, the moment they mention it. It's waiting when their birthday comes round.

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Together since

The day it started, counted forward. Anniversaries and milestones arrive before you've missed them.

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On your Home Screen

Widgets for how long you've been together, the next birthday or anniversary, and a photo from your memories that changes each day. Lock Screen complications too.

Inside the app

Three tabs. Opens on Today.

Today tab showing the daily spark
Today — one thing worth saying
Bonds tab listing each relationship
Bonds — everyone you're keeping warm
A single bond's detail screen
One person, their own pace
Memories grid of photos
Memories — and the story behind them
Wishlist of gift ideas
Wishlist — noted the moment they say it
Bondify widgets on the Home Screen
Widgets on the Home Screen

Guided plans

For the things you can't fix in one conversation

A few of the 23 plans, each a handful of days:

The argument you keep havingThe same fight, on repeat
The 3-day reconnectYou're fine — you've just gone quiet
Saying sorry properlyAn apology that never landed
Money without the fightThe subject that ends badly
Breaking a long silenceToo long to know how to start
The friend you've drifted fromNeither of you meant for it to happen
When one of you shuts downOne retreats, one pursues
Rebuilding trust, not just moving onPast the papering-over

Pricing

The premise isn't the paywall

Free

Everything you need to start today

  • Three bonds
  • The daily question
  • Two guided plans, including the 3-day reconnect
  • Twenty memories, with photos and notes
  • Your whole wishlist
  • Together since, and the widgets

Bondify+

When three people isn't everyone

  • Unlimited bonds
  • Unlimited memories
  • The full question catalogue
  • Every guided plan

Nobody else is watching

Bondify doesn't post anything, add friends, or show you other people's relationships. Your memories and notes stay on your device.

Start with one person

Add the one you've been meaning to call. The rest can wait.

Download on the App Store